He Only Wants To Sleep With You

Birdie Liau
3 min readDec 6, 2021

In this modern dating world, it’s easy to get rope into the dating “spell” of conquering one land and off to the next. Since there are tons of new choices at the swipe of your fingers *literally* . So it can be difficult to differentiate and decipher people’s intention especially during the initial phase of knowing someone completely new.

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“The Person” can whisper sweet nothing to your ears and be their ideal version of best self around you with only one hidden agenda in mind- to spread your legs open and show you a whole new world that would only benefit him and once he obtained his goals then he’s moving on to his next target.

It’s the whispering of sweet nothing to your ears, romantic longing and desire to be with you. Consuming you with “overwhelming” attention, gaining grounds on the physical aspect bit by bit with every interaction you’ve with him. It always started out with something tiny- waist holding, prolonged hugs and slowly progressing to something entirely different.

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Unknown to you how these sweet nothing conversations will always ended up skewing to the topic of intimacy and uncalled physical touches. It started out “innocently” sometimes it might even be in disguise so it can be hard to identify but as time progresses you started noticing this pattern of behavior.

It can be a confusing grey area to be in but the truth will unleash when you denies him of his request and action. You get to finally experience the side of him when he gets denied of what he wants- when he realized there’s no chance of him getting his “needs” fulfilled. His façade finally falls apart and his 180 degree change in attitude will take you by surprise, it’s like a sudden tsunami that sweep you away.

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Better to have seen the real intention and experience the anger and bitterness from this “false promise” fella than to settle for someone that’s just out there for more conquest and carnal cravings. You deserved to be recognized and love for more than just being a physical fantasy and desire.

Trust in the timing of your life.

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Birdie Liau

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